Charity of the Month: The Uni Project

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Uni projectI came across this, and thought it was pretty awesome: portable libraries!  I’ve always been a huge fan of books, and believe in the power they have to transform the lives of the people that read them.

The Uni Project “is a nonprofit committed to increasing access to books and learning opportunities through pop-up, open-air reading rooms.”

It’s mostly in New York City, but if you want to set up your own portable library they send you a reading room kit, which is so cool!

The Uni Project provides many ways to get involved: you can donate books, make a donation to help support a new or existing reading room, provide your time by volunteering as a librarian, or set up your own reading room in your local neighborhood!

 

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Charity of the Month: Twosome, Sock Co.

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Who doesn’t like cool socks?  This company is still starting up, and could use your help.  One great thing about Twosome is that’s it’s helping a local organization: the OC Rescue Mission.

You can read all about Twosome here, but the basic gist is that they have kind of a TOMS one-for-one campaign: for every pair of socks you buy, a pair gets donated to a homeless person.  The goal of the company is to help people more than by just giving them a pair of socks, but by helping them reintegrate into society.

So, give a little, get a little, and help out a stranger!  Oh by the way, the fundraising campaign only has 12 days left, so help spread the word!

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Work Update

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I’m sure you’re all on pins and needles waiting to find out how the new job is going…ha!

Well, no more pins and needles for you!  The new job is actually great.  It started off a little slow, but it’s definitely picked up and been the perfect balance of familiarity and challenge (I’m doing something I feel that I’m good at, but also being challenged).  The people I work with are great–everyone has been really nice and helpful, and it made my transition from St. Nicholas a little easier knowing that I was coming in to another welcoming work “family.”  One of my co-workers even invited Jake and I to meet her baby at the stables in San Juan Capistrano:

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Last week and up to tomorrow I’m actually covering for our office manager who is on vacation, so it’s been interesting to do my own job plus some of the responsibilities for the office manager.  I’ve been going in early and staying late, and running around frantically trying to figure everything out (I’ve had to rely on a lot of people and they’ve all been amazingly helpful).  It’s definitely been a challenging, hectic, and tiring week, but it’s also been really nice to realize that I can handle it, and even more: that I enjoy doing it.  It’s so nice to be in a  job where I like what I do and where people recognize and appreciate my skills and talents.

I will admit that I miss Gwen a lot and some aspects of my old job.  April 1st would’ve been my one-year anniversary at St. Nicholas.  Last year, that date happened to fall on the Monday after Easter Sunday.  For us Catholics, that’s a pretty memorable date, so with Easter just behind us, that job has been on my mind quite a bit lately.  I know this was a good move for me, but I still miss Gwen and our little office, saying “but what do we know?” every time we think something should be done differently.

Today I went back to St. Nicholas to help with First Holy Communion rehearsal, and it was so nice to see some of the families that I had interacted with before.  One of them asked about Jake, one kid recognized me from my current work, since that’s where she goes to school.  When I was on my way to the rehearsal I was wondering if it would be awkward since I haven’t been around at all, but it was like picking up the phone with one of those really good friends–where you can pick up the conversation right where you left off even if you haven’t talked in several months.  I strolled right in to my old comfort zone and was checking in students and answering questions, translating for families, and helping out.

Maybe some day I’ll be able to commit myself to being a volunteer teacher at the church, and that way be able to stay involved a little more.  But for now, I’m happy to still help out where I can, and I’m thrilled about where I am with my job.  I know it’s just the beginning, and I’m excited to see where this path leads me!

Literate Lushes Book Reads: February-May 2014

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It’s been a good few months for the Literate Lushes, we’ve had some great book choices and I’ve really enjoyed reading them!

Picking up where we left off

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February: Eighty Days: Nellie Bly and Elizabeth Bisland’s History Making Around the World, by Matthew Goodwin 

Well, the extended title kind of explains it all, haha.  This story is based on two real women who were some of the first female reporters in the United States.  They embarked on a trip around the world (Nellie Bly wasn’t aware it was a race until she touched ground again on the California coast after sailing from the East coast) in a time when travel was limited and challenged by how long it took to travel at sea, boat schedules, inclement weather, not to mention a nasty monkey!  The book was definitely interesting and caught my full attention at first, but then seemed to drag on a bit.  But overall I thought it was a great book–so many interesting tidbits of knowledge from all over the world that were great to read about (like the fact that before uniform time zones were instituted, each state could be on over a dozen different times, or that Nellie Bly was one of the first people to wear a “clock on a leather band” rather than a carry a pocket watch).  If you’re a history nerd, I think you’ll definitely enjoy this book.

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March: This is Where I Leave You, by Jonathan Tropper

This might not have been everyone’s favorite book, but I really enjoyed it.  Basically the main character’s father dies, he has to sit shiva with his extremely dysfunctional family, all soon after he walks in on his wife cheating on him with his asshole boss.  Among other things.  Most of the time I’m not a fan of story lines where the main character gets shit on over and over and over again, but in this case, I enjoyed reading about his at-times-comical and at-times-tragic life events.  I wasn’t a huge fan of the ending, but other Literate Lushes seemed to enjoy that the most.  Although it was sometimes so outside of reality (as one Literate Lush pointed out–there’s no way that every single person in the family is that messed up), I really enjoyed reading it.  Plus is was a pretty quick read, which was a nice follow up to Eight Days ;)

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April: The Paris Wife, by Paula McLain

Another book based on reality (and I think a bestseller, so this one is probably well known), this book is based on Ernest Hemingway’s first wife.  This book was great, and heartbreaking.  It starts with the couple meeting and running to Paris so Hemingway could pursue his writing career, and follows them through their first years of marriage and the difficulties that faced them as Hemingway’s career began to take off, and the sacrifices his wife had to make in order to allow him to focus on his career.  I fell in love with Hemingway’s wife, and found myself getting super mad at Hemingway every time I read how he mistreated her (emotionally, not physically) or hurt her feelings.  Sometimes what bothered me more was that she wasn’t hurt by some of his actions: she put his career ahead of everything, including herself.  The failure of their marriage was something that stuck with me for a couple days after I finished reading it–it makes you realize how fragile human relationships can be, and that is scary!

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May: Queen of the South, by Arturo Perez-Reverte

This was my month to choose.  And it’s so hard!  I always feel like I need to pick a book that brings attention to some world issue, or poverty, or problems in third world countries.  But I also want everyone to enjoy what they’re reading, rather than feel like they’re in high school again, forced to read The Old Man and The Sea. So this month I chose to compromise a little: I went with a novel, but one written by a Latin American author, and one that write about a very real problem faced in Mexico: the drug trade and the violence of the drug cartels.  Teresa, the main character, starts off as the girlfriend of a popular cartel Cessna pilot, and ends up fleeing to Spain in order to save her life.  I’m half way through the book, and I find myself at times unable to put it down, and at other times skimming through trying to get to the next interesting story line.  We’ll see how it ends!

Starting a New Chapter. Again!

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This last month has been a huge roller coaster of emotions. As much as I’ve loved my job, we quickly realized that financially it just wasn’t enough. It was really difficult for me to make the decision to start looking and applying somewhere else…this job has been the most supportive, caring, and flexible throughout my pregnancy and Jake’s first months–a time when most jobs are probably anything BUT those qualities.

I’ve grown so fond of the people I work with–not to mention fallen in love with their love and attention for Jake: they looked forward to his arrival almost as anxiously as we did. ALMOST ;)

This job has also helped me learn that I am really happy in an administrative position: I’m good at it and I really enjoy doing it. It’s sad that I became an attorney to realize this, haha, but hindsight is always 20/20, right?

Anyhow, with an excited, nervous, and heavy heart, I will begin a new job at a local junior high as the secretary to the assistant principal. As sad as I am to leave where I am, I think (and pray) that this is a good move for my family: higher pay (which hopefully means we’ll be able to move out in a couple months), better health benefits, and plenty of room to grow. I’m hoping this will be my last career move in a while–I hate having to start learning curves over and over again.

I start on Wednesday, which gives me two days to finish EVERYTHING on my somehow still growing list at my current job.

There are so many things I will miss about my current job: flexible hours, great co-workers and volunteer staff, Friday’s off, not to mention the kids and families I’ve gotten to know in the past year. And I’ll have to abandon Project Keep Plant Alive :(

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As of now, it’s still alive and well!

Cross your fingers for me that this transition goes well for Jake (new schedule and all) and that it’s a good move for all of us!

Following My Call…maybe

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A friend from college, who also went on to law school and became an attorney but hasn’t practiced in a while (phew), recently posted on Facebook that she has started her own event planning business.  I’ve felt, and people have told me, that this was my missed calling.  I do love planning events, I love keeping organizational spreadsheets, check lists, binders, etc.  So, I’m thinking of putting together a little website and see if anything will come of it.  I’m not quitting my day job, but would be nice to get a little extra money on the side doing something I enjoy (on top of The Merry Ministers).

I’m having trouble deciding what to do with the name, though.  I don’t want to combine it with The Merry Ministers since I feel they are really two separate things.  We also still have the Nuestras Manos website that we used when we had the camper business.  I could use that name and just revamp the site.  But I’m not sure if I want to stick with that name or not.  I absolutely fell in love with the name my friend picked for her business (“Mason Jar Wishes”), and I’m wondering if I should try to come up with something different, or use Nuestras Manos, which would still have a neat story behind it.  The official name would be something like Nuestras Manos Event Planning, or Nuestras Manos Events, or…you know..something like that.

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AHHHHH WHY IS LIFE SOOOO HAAAAAARD?!

Just kidding.  It’s not THAT big of a deal, but if you wanted to weigh in to help me make my decision, I would be very thankful.

Work Project: Keep Plant Alive

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See this little plant?  It’s a leftover from the flowers bought to decorate the church altar for Thanksgiving.  I don’t know what happened to the rest of them, but I was able to shift this one around and prevent it from getting thrown out (I think they were just waiting for it to die on it’s own before they threw it out..little did they know I kept watering it!).  I know it doesn’t look like much now, but when it was in bloom it was really beautiful.  I’m trying to see how long I can keep it alive.

See, Jeff and I haven’t been the best at keeping plants alive.  The longest plant we had was a Lady Palm that we named Bui.  We didn’t even know it was called a Lady Palm until we murdered it.  I mean, cold-blooded, completely-forgot-to-water-it-in-the-middle-of-a-heat-wave, murdered it.  And that’s that we loved it.  When we discovered that we had killed it, I had some serious doubts about our ability to care for the child that was in my belly at the time.  I also had some intense feelings of grief.   I know, I know, it was just a plant.  But it was our only surviving plant from when we lived in our apartment, and she was truly beautiful!  We did some internet searching to figure out what kind of plant she was, and finally found her at a local nursery, where we also found out how expensive she was.  That’s when I really wanted to kick myself in the ass for killing her.  We won’t be able to buy a new Lady Palm until we both get a raise.

But I digress.  The point is, I’m not the best at keeping things alive.  I definitely didn’t get my mother’s green thumb (have I every told you about the time we helped my mom move and filled up a whole U-Haul truck just with her plants?  No? So this one time my mom was moving and we filled up a whole U-Haul truck just with her plants.  That’s it).  Sorry, I’m feeling rambly tonight.

So, I don’t have much hope for this little guy, or gal, but I sure am giving it my best!  I’ve already trimmed all the dead stuff off, gave it a good cleaning, and so far managed to keep it alive for a couple months.  I’ve even moved it around a few times trying to figure out the best location for sun bathing.

Let’s hope it doesn’t join Bui anytime soon.

Any suggestions on what I should name it?  Or will that just make the loss more difficult?

Bernie.

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Bernie has coffee at our office every Monday morning.  Well, when he’s not visiting his daughter and grandchildren back east.  Bernie with his suspenders and New Jersey accent.  Bernie with his grandpa smile.

Bernie’s Lutheran.  I work at a Catholic church.

So what’s Bernie doing having coffee at our office every week?  His wife worked in our office for years, while Bernie attended and worked at the Lutheran church across the street (I love this about them).  Every Monday morning, Bernie would join his wife and the rest of the staff for coffee.  After his wife passed away, he decided he still wanted to keep his Monday routine and come to the office for coffee.

Back when I started working here in April, I remember Bernie saying that one of the worst thing about adjusting to life after his wife passed away was eating meals alone.  I was struck with his honesty, and how matter-of-fact he was about it.  It is what it is.  It made me sad.

But his smile makes me smile, and I’ve gotten used to chatting with him during our Monday coffee sessions.  Hee always asks about Jake.  He even brought me a little angel figurine that used to belong to his wife, and told me it was for Jake.  Sometimes I wonder if he’s just trying to slowly get rid of some of the things that might be the most painful to see around the house.  Regardless of the why, I thought it was really thoughtful and know it’s something I’ll treasure for a long time.

Bernie went back east for Christmas, and last week was the first time I’d seen him in over a month (if not more).  I couldn’t believe how excited I was to see his face come through our door.  My heart genuinely felt happy to see him.  Some people can bring joy to your life, just by being them.

That is all.

 

Bacon!

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Whenever I’m coming home with Jake, I inevitably have a ton of stuff to carry into the house, on top of the car seat and baby.  At first I tried to be wonder woman, because I CAN carry all these things by myself, but then realized I had a very able and willing helper at home that could come out and easily help me unload everything.

So I started getting into the practice of texting Jeff when I was around the corner from the house, asking him to come outside and help me unload.  These texts were usually “can you help me unload,” or “please come outside” or something to that effect.  I always wanted to simply text “help,” since it’s nice and short, but then I’d think to myself “he’s gonna freak out and think something’s wrong,” which would prolong the text conversation and I’d already be home (“no, we haven’t been in a horrible accident…”).

So last week I came up with a perfect solution: I came up with a codeword!  And what better code word than “bacon”?! One of these days I might even bring home some bacon (either real bacon, or the metaphorical-mega-money kind–I’m sure Jeff would be happy with either one).

Cooking: Pinterest Recipe Success!

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Yesterday I decided to try a couple recipes from Pinterest (rather than my usual AllFoods.com), and I was pleasantly surprised!

I went with a Lime Cilantro Chicken, which turned out deeeeee-licious!

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I still can’t believe how happy I was with this, especially considering how easy it was.   I was a little weary of the cumin and chili powder, but the lime and cilantro are the flavors that really jump out once it’s all cooked.

For a side dish we made Crash Hot Potatoes.  Ours did not look nearly as beautiful as these (they cooked unevenly and did not squish quite this perfectly at all like this), but they were so, so good!  We used a seasoning called Herbs d’Provence, or something like that, which already has a mixture of great herbs and spices.

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One thing to keep in mind is that these take a while.  You have to boil the potatoes first (which depending on how many you’re making and how much water you’re using, could take a while), and then you back them for an additional 25 minutes or so, so plan accordingly–we didn’t and we were starving by the time we ate.  Ha, maybe that’s why I thought everything was so good!

I’m pretty sure this chicken would go great with rice instead of potatoes, but we’d had rice the night before so I decided to switch it up.  Added a salad on the side, and ta-da, dinner is served!

 

 

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