March 6-10, 2011

I’m getting worse and worse at doing this, but it’s all of your faults for not holding me accountable! And mine for not making the time..
I don’t think I have the time or energy to really go through the last four days…let’s just say they’ve been busy, but here’s what I remember:
  • Went to Dr.’s appt.
  • Picked up art donations (huge thank you shout out to San Clemente Art Supply):
  • Walked Lilo–such a beautiful day yesterday for a walk in Dana Point:
  • Visited Brookie
  • HBA Program Committee meeting
  • Office work
  • Bought stuff for trip to Haiti…started making a pile of all the stuff I have to pack
  • Went to DMV to pay for replacement ID
  • Met with Dana to catch up and borrow her backpack for my trip
  • Church with my mom
  • Dinner with Julian & Erika
  • Finally called my grandmother in Guatemala! It only took hearing news of an earthquake to make me finally make time…I need to be better at that.
  • Went to mass for Ash Wednesday…spent the rest of the day telling people that I knew there was something on my forehead…but thanks for the heads up!
What I didn’t do:
  • Immigration cases: I HAVE to get this done before I leave next week
  • Write up on D&O insurance
  • Misc blogs I’d like to write up
  • HS Stuff I need to put together before I leave

Charity of the Month: No One Without

You know how there are certain people that come into your life, and you just know they were put in your life for a reason? That’s the behind the scene story for this month’s Charity: No One Without (“N.O.W.”).
Gaston, founder of N.O.W., used to be a full time real estate investor, and indeed thought that was what he would do for the rest of his life. His ultimate career plans changed, however, when he drove to Los Angeles on a mission trip with his church in 2009, and experienced the pain and suffering of the homeless through new eyes. After sharing breakfast with a homeless man, Gaston knew he had to do something different with this life, something that involved putting others first. The question was, how does he do that? The answer started to become apparent after he received a pair of TOMS shoes for his birthday, and the model of ONE-for-ONE blew him away. For those unaware, for every TOMS pair of shoes purchased, TOMS donates a pair of shoes to those most in need of them. Gaston thought of doing the same, but with clothes. But he wanted to take that model a step further: why not support non profits that are doing amazing work in various meaningful areas while you’re at it?
In the words of Helen Keller: “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.”
Cue Kelli. Gaston and Kelli met through a mutual friend, and they were instantly connected through their passions, their ideas, and their desire to make something happen that could have a real impact. As N.O.W.’s Director of Operations, Kelli makes it all happen. Gaston’s dreams and business sense, combined with Kelli’s relationship building strategies (not to mention prior work experience with TOMS!), were the perfect combination. Through this partnership, N.O.W. began to take shape, launched, and is beginning to help make a difference.
N.O.W. was founded as a “for purpose” company, meaning that the motivating factor is not “for profit” or “not for profit,” but rather “for the greater good.” How does it do this? For every product purchased, 20% of that purchase goes directly to funding efforts of N.O.W.’s non-profit partners. One of the great things about how N.O.W. is set up is that it does not restrict who they are helping. This is something I struggle with in trying to figure out what I want to do with my career: there are so many challenges in this world, and so many areas that I feel I could dedicate myself to, how could I pick just one? Well, N.O.W. found a way around this: help them all! N.O.W. can pick non-profit partners involved in so many different facets of work, and support each of them through “purpose driven consumerism.”
As of now, N.O.W.’s non-profit partners include:
  • More than Me (getting girls off the streets and into schools in Liberia, West Africa);
  • These Numbers have Faces (providing college scholarships to local Cape Town universities);
  • Thirst Project (raising awareness and money to provide clean drinking water); and
  • the Chisomo Idea (connecting privileged young to issues of poverty in Africa and providing them with a framework for action).

Not a bad group, huh?!

N.O.W. is off to a solid start, and as Kelli said: “there’s nowhere to go but up.” They are looking to expand their clothing line, as well as working with advisors in the fashion world and funding some great projects.
So what can you do? Check out N.O.W.’s store to see how you can become a purpose driven consumer. Like them on Facebook. Join them on Twitter. And most importantly, check out how you can help N.O.W. earn $5,000.00 to allow them build their line (which will give you more shopping options in the future and more ways to be a purpose driven consumer!). They have 27 days as of today to raise $4,174.00. As I like to say, no amount is too small…every $5 counts :)
This blog is already verging on the long side, but a huge thank you to Gaston and Kelli for taking the time to answer my questions, and letting this blog take “Charity of the Month” one step further than it’s ever gone before.

March 3-5, 2011

What I did:

  • All of our laundry!
  • Cleaned the kitchen
  • Changed bed sheets
  • Emptied out another huge portion of the garage…one more trip and I’m all done and the garage is back to it’s intended purpose!
  • Met Karin for lunch on Thursday to turn in another pair of gift certificates for the silent auction
  • Made important phone calls yesterday
  • Lost my driver’s license! Which means adding DMV to my to-do list for Monday, which is already out of control. I’m crossing fingers that alls I need to travel is my passport…
  • Tutored on Thursday
  • I finally wrote the letter on my small claims issue
  • Wrote my March Charity of the Month blog!
What I didn’t do:
  • Immigration stuff (I HAVE to do this soon)
  • HS stuff–again, HAVE to do this soon
  • I’m sure there’s more, but Jeff and I have spent almost four hours at Starbucks already and he’s ready to go :)

March 2, 2011

Busy and exhausting day.

What I did:
  • Dr.’s appointment at 7:45am. Led to more things on my to-do list.
  • Walked Lilo
  • Coffee with my attorney mentor, Monica, during which time I locked my keys in the car and had to call AAA TWICE since I missed them the first time they came by.
  • Office work
  • TVN
  • Started laundry, picked up kitchen, made dinner
  • Fixed slideshow again…I think I may have finally gotten it right this time, maybe
  • Important email for HS
  • On Tuesday I WENT TO THE GYM!
  • I also met up with Katie on Tuesday night, which was aaaamazing. I miss you.
  • Started to put together final fundraiser for our trip to Haiti
What I didn’t do:
  • Acceptance letters
  • Letter
  • Immigration stuff
  • D&O write up
I need to revert back to college days when I could stay up late being productive…

February 28, 2011

Holy crap, how is it March tomorrow??

What I did:
  • Half day at the office
  • Did some phone research and make some important calls…which resulted in more calls being added to my to-do list
  • Walked Lilo!
  • Took stuff to Goodwill..I think my garage will be in working condition again by next week, which is fantastic news
  • This weekend I worked a TON on the slideshow presentation for the HBA diner on Saturday, so hopefully I can wrap that up and be done with it by Wednesday
  • Helped Karin finalize some silent auction stuff
  • Worked on blogs for Haiti Scholarships
  • Made dinner! Delicious pasta primavera and asparagus
  • Went to church with my mom on Sunday, and watched Amazing Race with Jeff’s family
What I didn’t do:
  • Work on acceptance letters for HS
  • Write letter of support for small claims matter (which is no longer such a small claim…16 other couples are also trying to sue this wedding photographer)
  • Work on immigration cases
  • Research for 31 Bits
  • Contact school organizations regarding Haiti Scholarships and student sponsorships
  • Figure out what I need to get for my trip to Haiti…I can’t believe it’s in a little over two weeks, time has FLOWN by!
  • Probably much much more…

Interview results…and the ensuing conundrum

Well, I got the job offer from the non-profit in Riverside on Friday. I’d been thinking about my decision since I left their office on Thursday…and I thought about it all day Friday. I called and said I would let them know about my decision on Monday.

Although most of the thinking and decision-making was done on Friday, that only meant it left the whole weekend for me to second guess what I was doing.
I talked to my boss on Friday about this possible job offer, and he sat me down and we crunched numbers. The result was obvious: it just doesn’t make financial sense to take a job at that pay, that far away. Not to mention the toll the commute and work hours would start to take on Jeff and I. He told me I should just stay in his office and work out my own deal, develop a family law practice and maybe immigration if that’s what I really want to do. It’s hard to argue against something like that when the other choice is commuting to Riverside for a small salary.
One of the main reasons I’ve put off starting something of my own is because, at least for the time being, I like the idea of working for “someone,” “someone” to give me a general sense of direction on what I need to do and how I should do it. I still think one of the reasons I went to law school in the first place was because I wasn’t ready to be out “on my own” yet, and I’ve been postponing this reality for far too long. Trying out this job with Brad will make me grow up and finally do something for myself. I’ve never had to push myself too hard for things, so I’m scared of the challenges that lie ahead…and I’m nervous that I’ve made the wrong choice by turning down the job in Riverside. I’m also conflicted about going down this career path when I’ve been so infatuated with NOT doing a typical attorney career path. This is where my next challenge comes in: not to lose sight of my focus on public service. Regardless of the work I need to do for Brad, I need to continue working on my non profit stuff, continue to develop skills that would make me marketable in a non profit setting, continue volunteering what time I have to causes that I believe in and make me happy. My biggest fear is getting lost, career-wise…getting consumed by doing something “to get by,” and before I know it…I’m too old to make anything else happen.
Either way, it’s either sink or swim from here…let’s hope I’m making the right decisions in this game called life!

February 23-24, 2011

Let’s see…the 23rd was Wednesday….ok

What I did:
  • Worked extensively on power point for Wally Davis Scholars (need to get that done this weekend), made about a dozen calls to past recipients who I’m pretty sure will never return my phone call.
  • Office work all day Wednesday, half day yesterday
  • Stopped by Miguel’s office to pay off a loan (thanks again Miguel!)
  • Lunch with my public interest ladies
  • Interviewed in Riverside
  • TVN on Wednesday night
What I didn’t do:
  • The usual…you all know what they are by now…sigh. I really need to have some productive time this weekend…
  • Dinner last night…but Jeff did! He’s kind of awesome :)

Job Interview #342

Not really. But you know what I mean.

Had an interview with a legal nonprofit in Riverside today. I interviewed with a 5-person panel: three of the staff and two board members. Slightly intimidating to begin with, but everyone was super sweet and made me feel comfortable from the get go. I think I’ve finally gotten down my answers to most standard interview questions…taken me long enough!
With that said, I’m still torn about the position. When in doubt…to a pro and con list!
Pro’s:
  • It’s public interest, so I’d be doing what I (think) want to do, although it would be mostly in areas of family law and landlord-tenant which I have no experience in, which leads to…
  • Good learning experience
  • Networking in a new geographic location
  • The organization looks like a great place to work, although super small (staff of about 4, helping over a thousand clients a year!)

Con’s:

  • It’s about an hour commute each way
  • No immigration work due to funding
  • Requires a lot of driving for the job (position is for clinic manager, so 2-3 days a week I’d be driving to Ontario and other locations in the Inland Empire)
  • Clinics on 2 days a week run late, which means getting home around 8 or 9pm (although I wouldn’t be starting until 10 or 11am)
  • Salary is less than $45,000. It would be almost an extra $2,000 a month from what Jeff and I are surviving on right now, so it’s not an issue of not paying our bills…but thinking long term I just don’t know if that salary is worth all the driving and slightly unconventional hours. On the other hand, I have to start somewhere…and it would be enough to pay our bills, credit cards, a meager loan payment, and maybe even start saving a little…MAYBE.
I guess I should have started by saying that they haven’t offered me a position yet…this is me getting ahead of myself.
If you were in my shoes…what would you do?
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