Work Update

So for those regular followers, I wanted to give you all a quick update on things. As I knew would happen, now that I have a full time job I haven’t been able to write on here as much as I’d like. I’m starting to make notes of ideas I get for things to write, whenever they come to mind, which means endless stickies which might not make sense when I read them a couple days later.

So if you remember from my last blog, I wrote about the new lady that had started working at my office. Well, after discovering her perpetual lateness (every day since she started, and I’m not talking about 5-10 minutes late, I’m talking about an hour to an hour and a half late), she was promptly let go. Crazy, but it makes sense. Anyhow, there’s another new girl that’s doing some side work, and she seems like a really nice girl. She’s a pretty girl, and she’s 18, which means all the boys in the office are riled up. She seems to be taking it pretty well though!

As much as I want to go into detail about everyone at my office, and share all the exciting characteristics and traits of each of them with you all, I figure it’s only a matter of time before they track me down on Facebook, which will eventually lead them here, so I’d rather play it safe :)
Anyhow, while I may not be able to update as often, I don’t want to leave you guys hanging, so if you enjoy new music, one of my best friends Sarah has started posting regular music videos on her blog. Sarah has always been a source of new amazing music for me, so I hope you all enjoy her video blogs!

"Why does it say paper jam, when there IS NO PAPER JAM?"

I’m hoping most of you recognize the above quote from Office Space. Do you remember the frustration with which it was said? Because that is my frustration sometimes with the printer at my work. Except that the printer actually DOES have a paper jam…with every. Other. Page.

It’s such a temperamental piece of machinery. Sometimes it prints, sometimes it gets jammed. You just never know. If copy machines weren’t so expensive, and our office was going to get a new one, I wouldn’t mind ending it’s days the classic Office-Space way:

Here’s to knowing I made the right choice

Jeff and I went out for dinner tonight, a date night if you will. It wasn’t anything crazy, we just went to Chili’s, ordered food, some drinks, and picked up a movie at Blockbuster. I should mention that my strawberry margarita gave me the WORST brain freezes I never even knew were possible. I’m not exaggerating–it was terrible. I almost considered not drinking anymore of my over-priced margarita. Almost.

Anyhow, after we picked up a few episodes of Entourage at Blockbuster, and some coffee at Gelson’s, we got in the car for our mile-long drive home. And hilarity ensued. I seriously haven’t laughed this hard in a long time, my abs are still recovering. I love being able to make a fool of myself, and seeing Jeff laugh as much as he did tonight.
Love.

Places I’ve eaten at…

So in the last two weeks, I’ve gone out to eat with some of the guys from the office twice. And twice have proven amazing as far as good company and lack of spelling…

This place we will now always call “Seafoo”
And this was a mongolian BBQ place at the mall…
I can’t wait to see where we go next!

Remembering What We’re Thankful For

I really think it’s the only thing that has gotten Jeff and I through these last couple months. As you probably know from prior posts, things have been difficult for Jeff and I, but we’ve somehow managed. People always say that money is what tears marriages apart, and I guess I can kind of see why. Obviously Jeff and I are somewhat novice to the marriage idea (3 months today!!), but I’d like to think we’ve got a good thing going.
Even now that I started a job, it doesn’t alleviate things overnight. We still have bills that are overdue (but getting paid day-by-day), and things we’d like to do but are unable to do right now. And Jeff won’t be getting some of the money that he was getting from unemployment, so I think my income will basically even things out rather than put us over the top. But among all of this, there have constantly been things that keep me positive and hopeful (which is difficult to do, believe me). As rocky as things have been the last couple months with money, rent, bills, etc., the thing that always kept me hopeful was knowing that I have Jeff in my life, along with our friends and family.
This season, especially, makes me really happy. My mom and all my aunts came to our place last week, and it made me so happy to just sit around my apartment with them and catch up on everything. It made me realize how lucky I am to have the family that I have. On Tuesday, my mom surprised Jeff and I and bought us a Christmas tree, which was amazing. We had been holding off on buying it because we wanted to make sure all our bills were paid before we splurged, so it was soooo amazing to walk into our apartment on Tuesday after my first day of work, and find a Christmas tree all set up! (My mom called Jeff, so he went to her house to pick it up, then set it up at our place before I got home.) We also got to spend time on Tuesday with Jeff’s parents (who cooked him a special birthday dinner: tacos!), and got to celebrate Jeff’s birthday on Wednesday with all of our close friends. To top it off, Courtney came over to our place to help us decorate the tree, and we had hot chocolate after we were all done. It’s amazing to share special occasions with those you love and appreciate. It makes me all giddy!
I know some of you reading this are still struggling, and the point of this is to simply remind everyone to be thankful for the good things we have in life. I know how easy it is to get down and out, but it makes life easier when you remember all the little-good things in life, rather than just the big-bad things ;)

Adult Life

I’m not sure how people do it.

Granted, I’ve only had a week to figure things out, but I’m still amazed at how my mom and aunts got so much crap done in a day. I mean, I’m working from 9 am to 6 pm, and when I get home, it’s kind of late to get your day started at home, and I don’t really feel like doing anything productive. It’s all fine and dandy for now, Jeff and I are both big kids so we can pick up after ourselves and keep the house relatively clean. But how do you manage once you have kids??? There are so many things I want to do when I get home, and it’s nothing crazy, just picking up little areas in the apartment, making a good dinner, etc., but it all goes down the drain when I walk through the door and feel like just laying down for the night.
Personally, I think 6pm is too late to get off work. I was told that once I was fully trained I could go in to the office earlier so I can get off at 4 or 5pm, which I’m looking forward to. It may only be an hour, but I think that hour will be my salvation to being more productive at home!

The new J-O-B

So I finished up my first week yesterday. It had its ups and downs, but overall I think it was a good first week. It’s a little weird to find myself doing something I had never imagined, but I guess that’s life: “uno pone, y Dios dispone.” To give you a brief background, there are two girls in the admin office, one receptionist, an attorney, another guy who I think is in charge of general office administration (still not sure exactly sure what his role is), one new girl that started on Thursday, and then 7 guys that do all the grunt work.

First of all, I’ve always hated the learning curve at any new job. You start working somewhere you know nothing about, you don’t know how they do things, what their system is, who does what, what you’re supposed to be doing, etc., etc., etc. And on the other hand you’re having a ton of information thrown your way, which makes things a little overwhelming. This place has been good about the latter, they’re training me a bit slow, which I guess I should be gracious for! It’s just frustrating not knowing how to do things, and seeing everyone else around me busy while I’m trying to figure out how to do one simple task. I’m looking forward to the next month or so being done, when I finally know what I’m doing and I don’t have to be asking someone a question every five minutes….because I’m sure that’s getting annoying…. :)
As to the other new girl that started on Thursday, I have a confession to make. I was a little upset she was stealing my “new girl in the office” title so soon after I started (on Tuesday). I was basking in all the glory of being the only girl in the back office and getting to know everyone, and then another new girl comes along! Silly, I know. But here’s one thing I’ve learned throughout the years: I’m never the only one who feels a certain way, we’re just too embarrassed or afraid to admit to things. So I’ll admit it, I was jealous of the second-new-girl. But it turns out she pretty much keeps to herself, so I guess there was nothing to worry about…
Which brings me to the final point of this blog: I really like the people I’m working with. I’m still unsure about the actual job, but the people so far are great. They’re all super mellow, joking around with each other and such. I’m still weighing where I fit in to the picture, but I can tell they’re getting more comfortable around me by seeing how they’re interacting with each other: the first couple days were a little quiet, but by Thursday they were back to their normal shenanigans. The other thing I love is that everyone (except for the main attorney) speaks Spanish, and I had forgotten how much I missed being around that. Growing up I’ve always had friends around me who spoke Spanish and I could relate to on a cultural level. After I graduate college and moved back home, I didn’t have that connection anymore. It’s been great to be able to speak Spanglish, listen to the guys make fun of each other in Spanish, and be able to use all the Spanish phrases in the book. I think this will help at home too, since I’ll be in Spanish-mode all day, and maybe I’ll be better about teaching Jeff some Spanish :)
So overall, it’s been a good week.

Charity of the Month: Alexis McLeod!

I’m going to start my Charity of the Month column with an exception (typical lawyer-speak, huh?). From January forth, I will be focusing this column on non-profits and organizations. This month, however, I’m focusing it on an amazing individual (with a cool organization backing her up).

I met Alexis while volunteering at Public Law Center, where she has been a fellow for the past few years, heading up their AIDS/HIV legal clinic. She recently went to Rwanda as part of a legal team that created a manual with the purpose of giving Rwandan woman information about their rights, the rights of their children, and information on legal resources for families who struggle with land grabbing.
Alexis has firmly placed herself on my “Hero” list by what she has decided to do next: Alexis has become an International Justice Mission Fellow, meaning she will be flying to South Asia and working for FREE for a year to work on some pretty big issues:

“According to UNICEF, more than 2 million children are exploited in the commercial sex trade every year. Girls as young as 4 years old are sold into brothels where they are forced to perform sex acts for those who have no regard for their dignity. I am overwhelmed by these horrendous statistics, and yet so disturbed that I have no choice but to break through the silence and head into the fight.

As a Legal Fellow, I will help the South Asia field office bring justice to women and children who have suffered these horrible abuses of their basic human rights. The position I have been offered is unpaid, and I am responsible for covering all of the costs associated with my assignment. I have saved approximately $10,000, will be cashing in my life insurance policy and 401K, but I still need your help. I anticipate that I will need to raise an additional $10,000 to support my time in South Asia.”


You can read about International Justice Mission here, and you can donate to Alexis here.


Not all of us are able or willing to make the sacrifice to take a year out of our busy lives and give it to such a worthy cause. I know we are all going through some tough financial times, but if you even have $5 to spare, I ask that you consider donating it to Alexis and the amazing cause she will be working for. We can all work vicariously through Alexis in combating the injustices of the world!

Update on My Job Search Adventures

So I got a call back from the bankruptcy/immigration firm on Wednesday, and went in for a second interview on Friday, where they actually offered me a position. I took it. I start tomorrow (Tuesday) and I’m really looking forward to seeing how this turns out. It’s not necessarily where I saw myself working, but it could be a good opportunity and it gives Jeff and I an income, which we desperately need right now.

On the lighter side of things, guess what they kept asking me? Did I REALLY speak Spanish fluently? No one really believed me, and I was basically begging them to just ask me something in Spanish so we could get the credibility issue out of the way. I got a tour of the office after the second interview (which was just an overview of logistics for the position, and an inquiry into whether I really spoke Spanish…) and they introduced me to everyone that works in the office. They’re pretty much all Hispanic, and they all had the same Arrested-Development-ish question in their eyes: “Her?” I knew what they were thinking: there’s no way this girl speaks Spanish fluently. I can’t wait for tomorrow!
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